It wasn’t until I deployed that I truly understood the importance of mailing care packages.
Prior to my experience, I thought the purpose of sending packages to deployed members was to give the person something they needed. Having now been on the receiving end, I realized it goes beyond fulfilling a physical need for some deodorant or beef jerky.
When you’re away from family and friends, there’s a void that you are left with. You miss the interpersonal communication, the personal touch of a kiss or an embrace. You long for something that just isn’t available to you.
Then, on those few sporadic mail days, you are blessed with something totally unexpected and super exciting.
It is on those days when I receive a care package that I feel the love emit from the contents inside.
From the card or note that cheers me up or brings a tear to my eye, to the k-cups that restock my stash and keep me going throughout the day.
These moments make you feel like a child on Christmas all over again.
I regret not sending packages to friends that were deployed; I just didn’t realize the emotions that could travel with these small blessings.
From here on out, I vow to be more diligent to care for friends, near and far. To send them love when they are away or when they are at home and need something a little extra because a little goes a long way.
When should you create a care package?
When you can’t physically be there for the person on the receiving end.
When you want to show them you love them and you care
When you want them to know you were just thinking about them
When you’ve identified a need and want to fulfill it
When someone is deployed or significant other is deployed, had a new baby, is going through a really rough season, just moved to a new location.
Is there ever a bad time to send a care package?
I don’t think there is ever a bad time to send a care package, but ultimately you should check the motive behind sending it. Don’t feel obligated to send something; you should genuinely want to send something out of the kindness of your heart.
Don’t replace care packages with actually being there for someone. Things are nice, but you can’t buy love. Sometimes, an individual needs a shoulder to lean on or a person to talk to and if you are hiding from filling that need by sending a package, I would encourage you to reconsider.